Not normal and not abnormal either! Some guys and gals just get off to a slow start and that's ok. Don't worry! It will all happen in time, relax and have fun just being you and before you know it some girl will start making eyes at you and there you go!
Normal, or not normal, I think its time you start finding a way to meet and interact with more females. Try to get your male friends to introduce you, take a class and start chatting with the new people you meet, pursue a hobby that might also interest women. You must know women through school/work, even if you are not close to them. Why not be a bit more friendly? Not to say you need to make one of these girls your best friend, but get to know her and you might end up meeting her friends, their friends etc. Also the more women you meet the easier you will find talking to them/being friendly. And eventually this will help you when you find a girl that interests you as more than a friend. Relax and be friendly. We aren't that different from guys.
Who cares if it's normal if you are you and have some friends to hang out with. Just enjoy the ones you have. You will make some girl friends soon enough and then you will ask advice on this site if we think she likes you. :) You are fine.
Hey dude. I'm pretty much in the same boat as you but I spent 6 plus years in the rigs. Stupid me. So I pretty much spent most of my time with guys. I just quit the job, finally, and going back to school to get a new profession and meet people (girls) of course. But ya, honestly the normal average guy should have at least a couple of female friends at least, and if not, join clubs, or go back to school. Unless you were in a different situation such as mine, which I didn't even know what the heck I was thinking! But ya dude, get out there and meet girls! Just be friendly with them and don't be clingy or anything! I'm starting my life over again basically and have a few female friends, just talk with ones that are interested in you and keep them! Good luck!
No it is not normal. You need to start looking around you and start seeing what you need to do to change that. I would say any male over the age of 18 should have at least some female friends. If you are in college, then you should have no excuse not to have any female friends. If you are not in college, then you should go get a job or join a community that has a lot of females in it or consider going to college. It is ok to not have a girlfriend, but it is not ok to not have any female friends. This is the truth, these girls are just being too nice with their advice. Get out and network!
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My ideal date would be somewhere where we could talk and get to know each other like bowling (my town has nothing else to do but that and movies so I'm limited) skating would be fun. I'd try to look as nice as possible but still being me. Do my hair all perfect and stuff like that:). I'd take her home where hopefully a kiss might happen. Just on the lips no tongue. It is the first date after all ;)
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Hopefully that I'm a great guy who will be himself around you or anyone. Do anything to make you laugh. That I'm not afraid to show that I'm with you in public or in front of "the guys". That I'm rather sensitive but can still stand up for myself. That I can be both independent and dependent. & I'm dependable. Also that I'd do a lot to impress you. =]]
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