My ex-girlfriend cheated on me and basically had an affair with another guy for a few months. we broke up but we are now best friends and still go out to movies and dinner often. we consider ourselves friends with benefits since we still have sex. I know that she has changed and would probably never cheat on me again but then people say "once a cheater, always a cheater." she tells me about all the dates she goes on and how I am better than all of them and she always tells me that I am still her #1 guy and that no relationship she has with a guy will ever ruin our close friendship. I don't want to get back together with her because I will never forget what she did but I have not dated since we broke up just because I'm a very shy, antisocial kind of guy and we both clearly still have feelings for each other. so I just wanna know:
is it normal to be such good friends with an ex that cheated on you?
is there any situation in which you could get back with a cheating girlfriend?
and
why do some guys even get back together with a cheating girlfriend? how do they forgive cheating? (i definitely need an answer to this!)
I been there I am still kind of there he cheated on me broke my heart and we are still on a break to this day it been over a year. He the one that doesn't want a relationship, he wants to fool around I guess. We still hang out and slept together I love him and always will doubt we have a chance anymore.
Well, I have to say that I tried to be friends with my ex. We were married and he cheated on me. When we separated, I tried to be friends with him, but it was hard because I knew he still had feelings for me. The fact that he betrayed my trust made me realize I could never be with him again because where you don't have trust, you just don't have a relationship. I met someone else and it was just too hard to build something new with someone when he was still in the picture. So, I haven't spoken to him in months and it gets easier. Your girlfriend hurt you and she betrayed you. So, no, I don't think it's weird that you're still friends, just don't see any good coming out of it. You will have to see it for yourself. You will meet someone eventually, and her being in the picture will be awkward. So, all I have to say is, do what makes you feel alright, but ask yourself, what is the good in staying friends with someone that you cannot trust? You can forgive but never forget. It will always be in the back of your mind. Keep that in your thoughts. Good luck to you!
Dude you need to drop this girl ASAP. Yeah getting some action every now and then might be nice but this girl cheated on you once and good chances are if you get back together she will do it again. I know this is easier said than done but it is the best for both of you.
I don't think you will ever fully trust her again, no matter what she says. The problem is, you are so heavily involved with her, its like you never broke up. I sense that you still have trust issues in the back of your mind. One thing to remember, even if you do stay with her, your relationship will never be what it was before she cheated. The fact that she cheated will always be there. You can forgive her, but there's a part of you that will never forget what she did to you.
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