I want to discuss girls CHEATING because they are not pleased with their husband sexually.

They could be cheating because they like variety.
They could be cheating because they want to screw Marlboro Man, but have the security of Mr. Nice Guy.
They could be cheating because she likes the attention, she already knows YOU think she is beautiful... but what about other guys? Is she still attractive? If they want in her pants and compliment her and have a wonderful time in the sack then "she's still got it, baby!".
She could be cheating due to mental illness, like nymphomania, or obsession with approval. Perhaps even daddy issues.
She could be cheating due to simple poor self control.
She could be cheating because she is vindictive and it gives her a way to get back at you,
She could be cheating due to peer pressure.
She could be cheating because she is afraid of commitment, or settling, or out of curiosity.
She could be cheating because she wants to break up, but wants you to be the one to do it.
She could be cheating because she was lonely and you were not around.
She could be cheating to punish you for her last boyfriend cheating on her.

There are many reasons to cheat. Regardless of the reason, it shows disrespect and a lack of self control. And it shows that the best you can expect from them is to be a f-buddy. If you want a deeper relationship, you will have to move on.

We don't cheat because sex is bad. It's because the sex is bad/nonexistent, there is no communication, and the man has tuned out of the relationship in some way. I don't know a single woman that is in a committed relationship with good communication and a devoted husband that sleeps with someone else.

yeah she should learn how to suck dick really good and torture him sexually with her tongue and her hands and her vag. men crave a woman who's a sex addict in the bedroom. WOMEN NEED TO GET CREATIVE INSTEAD OF BLAMING THE GUY, UNLESS HIS THING IS REALLY, REALLY LITTLE. THEN HE BETTER BE ABLE TO EAT THE PUSSY IN A SPECTACULAR WAY.

I don't think that not having good enuff sex is a big enuff reason for a girl to cheat...dont get me wrong,cheating is never okay,but if a girl is cheating because the sex isn't good enuff,i would bet that the sex isn't the only thing wrong.

When my boyfriend and I have sex,i don't always have an Orgasm..He always does..But I don't always.But I Love him and I would never cheat on him.Honestly,seeing him pleased is enuff for me.And it still feels good..and like I said,i would never cheat on him,just because I don't always have an Orgams,or becuase the sex could be better(wich it could)

So,in my opinion,if she's cheating because of "bad sex",The bad sex isn't the only reason she's cheating..

I think cheating is just the result of no communication. If my man isn't pleasing me in any way, not just sexually, I will sit him down and talk to him about it. If I've talked to him about the problem already, and he dosen't show any sign of solving it, or working with me to solve it, then I will probablly leave him. Then again, it depends on how big the problem is, but I wouldn't go out and cheat. I didn't like it when it was done to me, and I know that he wouldn't like it if I did it eaither.

hmm. if your not pleased why would you still be in the relationship you know.

Sometimes it is because of the sex they don't get. Its the attention they don't get. or its because they want to be done with their partner but can't because of what ever reason like the girl goesnt want to break his heart or she just really still cares about him. It really all depends on the girl.

I think all cheaters are scum. There is no excuse or good reason for cheating. It means you don't respect your partner or your relationship at all. I doubt the only reason a woman would cheat is because her bf/husband is not good enough-there would defo be more to it than that. I don't see how someone can be so bad in bed that you'd need to cheat on that person.

I hate to break it to you, but women rarely cheat because they want more sex. they usually cheat because they feel unloved or uncherished at home. They go into a new relationship looking for someone to treat them kind, and make them feel like they matter.

Well, first you have to understand that women cheat for different reasons than men do - 90% of the time. Men cheat for sexual gratification because they want - sexual gratification. Women, predominantely cheat due to something that is lacking within the relationship they are in. Now, most times this isn't due to a sexual needs - its due to an emotional need for some sort of connection. There is almost always a reason behind the action itself beyond just sexual stimuli.

She cheats because she want to have more excitement in her life.

Personally, I hate cheaters. If my wife or girlfriend were to think it's okay to cheat cause of lack of sex or good sex, we'll there's the door.