My boyfriend and I have dated for three months now. I'm actually moving in with him in a few weeks as opposed to moving back to my home state (1100 miles away) and having to break up. But lately I've just been feeling like it's all physical. Every time I come over, he just automatically throws himself at me. Which isn't a bad thing, I've got no complaints about that. It's just that. The other day, we were having one of those joking conversations, and I don't know if it was something I should take to heart. I said he hated me because he was poking fun at me. He replied with something like "you'd be so heartbroken if I did" and I said that he'd be heartbroken if I hated him. Obviously, being a guy, he denied it numerous times, saying he wouldn't care. We joke around all the time, but it's never really gone that far. And I don't know whether to take it seriously. The more I thought about it, the more I thought about his past. He dated some psycho two years ago and she completely destroyed him when they broke up. Apparently she's never allowed him to be happy since. And really, I don't know if they still talk. But I do know for a very good fact that he wouldn't cheat on me, so please don't give me those sort of answers.
I don't understand what you are asking about? If you two joke back and forth about not really caring about each other (and then we add in a questionable former girlfriend), then it makes sense to me that he would be guarded. I wouldn't open up to someone who joked with me that way.
As for greeting you with physical contact - sounds like you two are in accord on that, so I wouldn't read anything negative into it (not that that is a bad way to say hi anyway).
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