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Should I just leave him alone and move on?

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unbesodeti (Age:25 to 29) When: 6 months ago

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I need some advice from men please. This is the situation. This guy and I have been chatting online only for almost two months. After a few weeks I started seeing someone and this person knew that.

Now my friend and I chat about everything mainly me as he does not open up much. However once my boyfriend came to town about two weeks ago my friend asked me if I had feelings for him and I stated I did and he told me he did as well. After that time he started opening up a little more not to much. But when we chat sometimes he acts like he likes me and sometimes he doesn't.

So we are chatting and I can't get a straight answer out of him whether he wants to pursue this with me or not since I broke it off with my boyfriend. Then we get on the subject that when my boyfriend came down we had sex. Oh that made him mad and he stated he would listen to me but not respond to chats anymore.

Now keep in mind that one week before my boyfriend came to town he had sex with some girl. Since we were just friends and I told him everything I doubted this would have an impact cause we just told each other how we felt after my boyfriend came to town. So I tried to chat with him last night and he said that he does not want to hear from me anymore. But he did not block me from I'm him or sending emails. Should I just leave him alone and move on? I really just want to know why he can get so mad when we were just friends. I liked us being friends now he is throwing it all away cause of this.


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Nostratic (Age:30 to 35) When: 6 months ago

Your story is a little confusing to an outsider, but here's my guess:

Your IM friend wanted a romance with you, and thought your chats were leading that way. But when you slept with your ex, it kind of ruined the idea for him.

If he's not blocked your messages, write to ask what he thinks, and to apologize for any worry you might have caused him. If he doesn't respond, then move on with your life.

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Thanks for the advise and just clear up something. My friend new that I had a boyfriend and what I planned on doing cause we chatted about everything. I guess I am still naive @ 27 when it comes to things like this. Thanks - 6 months ago

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And one last thing to add I never got upset at the fact that he slept with a woman one week before I slept with my boyfriend. I was hurt but did not let him know that. So why is it so easy for him to just blow it off. - 6 months ago

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