Guys, what do I do? I want him back, we broke up two weeks ago, and whenever we see each other he says it's really hard not to act like my boyfriend and he's still very physically attracted to me. He's also said he cares about me a lot. He broke up with me because I was being too demanding, and we kept fighting. He admitted he's jealous of all the guys that are trying to get with me.
Lately I've stopped texting, calling, hanging out with him and it's getting to him. How do I make him finally want me back for good at this party? All of our friends will be there. He doesn't drink, but I do.
Should I try making him jealous, should I just act cool and talk to other guys, should I even talk to him? I don't want to act like a little hoe and dance with every guy that wants to dance with me, I don't want to lose his respect so I'm not gonna drink TOO much, just get a buzz.
If I were you I would just go with the flow. IF you think about it too much you'll go off throwing those "nervous awkward vibes" without even realizing it. Be cool. Be charming. AND DO NOT GET DRUNK! You'll only make a fool out of yourself, especially if he is going to be sober.
Dont TRY to make him jealous, this is sure to backfire on you! Just be yourself. Mingle with your friends and enjoy yourself. Be charming and be positive, you'll send out very magnetic signals!
Everyone is different, there is no secret way to get him back. If it is meant to be, it will be! Be true to yourself and to your heart, don't be too prideful and don't be to pushy. It sounds like he does like you, but no one wants to be with someone who is too demanding.
Im sure you will have a great time tonight... But I just have to add this last piece of advice...
It sounds like you enjoy the fact that he gets jealous. I want you to know, there is nothing flattering about jealousy. It shows how weak-minded people can be. Jealousy shows signs of lack of trust, lack of communication, possessiveness and a need to be controlling. These are not signs of love, DO NOT CONFUSE THEM AS SUCH A THING.
Just because he gets jealous, does not mean that he truly cares. It does however mean that he may like it IF/when you succumb to the idea that you are "his". Jealousy is a surefire sign that he likes to have control over people, its a mind thing, and it feeds his ego when you play into this.
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