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When a women attracted to older men does this mean she is mature for her age?

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evette (Age:36 to 45)     When: A month ago
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I can get along with anyone at any age, but when it comes to liking a person or a person liking me the guy is at least ten years older than I am even when I was a teenager This would happen.
I do not see anything wrong with the age difference as long as both parties are adults but does it mean the women is mature for her age?

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TheLastHonestGuy
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TheLastHonestGuy (Age:36 to 45)      When: A month ago
No it does not necessarily. Our earliest sexual stimulations imprint on us, and we usually spend the rest of our lives recreating them.
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ilovelegs
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ilovelegs (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
Maybe in a way otherwise she'd be spending her time with guys her own age. Also, it could be that she secretly needs some kind of security feeling that an older guy can give provided he's not robbing the cradle. lol! Often when you look at girls that always seem to be with older guys you'll find that she never had a close relationship with her dad. Of course, this isn't always the case. Older guys do bring more spice and experience (not just with sexual things) to a relationship that a younger guy can't. Plus they often have better transportation and more money. lol! Personally, I'm more attracted to younger girls, so someone please answer me on that one, k? lol!
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Atomizer (Age:30 to 35)      When: A month ago
I don't think being consistently attracted to older partners makes anyone more "mature."

How are we defining "mature"?

Women _tend_ to want guys who are older by a few years, but there are lots of reasons someone might consistently prefer older partners:

-Looking for a sugar daddy/mama
-Looking for a mother/father substitute.
-Simply more turned on by older people.

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lefthand (Age:36 to 45)      When: A month ago
Not necessarily, it just means you like older partners. I know a few people who have this interest and it doesn't seem to follow that they are more mature. In some cases, they are looking for a parent figure more than an equal with strikes me a counter argument to the maturity.

People like what they like, enjoy.
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AJtogo (Age:Over 45)      When: A month ago
At what point do we stop maturing, or is it an ongoing process? When you refer someone being mature for their age, it usually refers to someone in their teen years who has the maturity of someone much older.

I do not see someone in their 40s as being any more mature as someone in their 30s. Maturity means we have reached adulthood and act as an adult would in differing situations. We may gain more life experience, wiser if you will, but we don't get any more mature.

Sounds to me like you have more of a father fetish.
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Question Asker Maturity never stops at the age of 3o or 40 years old you never stop mentally and emotionally growing. Physically you stop growing around the age between 16 - 19 years old. - A month ago
Answerer I disagree. I think there are too many examples of people who stop maturing when they reach adulthood. Men in particular are often charged with acting childish. However, this may be an argument best left in the nature vs. nurture category. - A month ago
 

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CougarKat (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
it could mean your mature or it could mean you like being babied by the older men because they make you feel young again.
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