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Stop liking me?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 9 months ago
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I wore glasses all through middle school, and my crush really flirted with me and talked to me a lot (and we had a lot of classes together) then this year I got contacts and he still did a lot of stuff but not as much, and then this semester all he does is look at me because we have non classes together. Would he just stop liking me since I got contacts?

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deadwait (Age:25 to 29)      When: 8 months ago
Maybe, but its been so long I think he moved on to someone else - were you playing "too hard to get" ?
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snatch (Age:Over 45)      When: 9 months ago
The same thing happened to me in school. There were only two of us in class that wore glasses. I felt stymied by them and like I was a 2nd class person. I couldn't do the things that the other guys did, I was afraid I'd break them. There was a girl in my class who wore them too. She was very sweet and very pretty. One day she showed up with contacts on. (My folks could not afford them). Suddenly, here eyes were so pretty, the guys started paying attention to her more and more. I was happy for her, but felt left out. She was "moving on" and I knew I would be left behind. AS more guys called her, she suddenly developed all kinds of excuses to be busy when I called. . . . Maybe this guy is afraid that this will change his "social standing" with you. You are now in a different league from his perspective. Guys hate wearing glasses if they don't have to. It's like walking on crutches, it telegraphs to everyone that there is something wrong with you, that you're not perfect somehow. . . Finding a girl in the same situation who likes you is a plus. Now, you've left his "level" and moved up on the social ladder. . . See my point? Continue to try to see him if you like him. Let him know that the contacts are just pieces of plastic and don't change your feelings for him, or who you are.
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gereguy (Age:36 to 45)      When: 9 months ago
No. There must be more to it unless the loss of glasses revealed a real negative aspect of you.
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SedosaChiquita
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SedosaChiquita (Age:18 to 24)      When: 8 months ago
If he stopping liking you just because you got contacts, well, I would say that is lame! I think that the reason you feel like you two aren't connecting anymore is because you don't have very many classes together. Absence doesn't always make the heart grow fonder. Renew your contact with him. Ask him to hang out sometime talk with him, chat or whatever! And if for some strange, convoluted, stupid reason, he did stop liking you because you got glasses, well then he is not worth your time.
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EBs123 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 9 months ago
It is probably not just because you got contacts. If you don't have classes together he probably does not have much of a chance to talk to you. He also might have met someone else, or maybe he is afraid to talk to you. Most of the time, the difference between glasses and contacts is not enough to change someone's mind completely.
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