What about weight?

I just want a girl that weighs less then me, as do most guys. Makes me sound shallow cause I only way a buck20, haha ... but she can have curves, not a turn off at all.

To be honest, it doesn't really bother me if a girl isn't generically thin; I find the size 0 figures repulsing to look at . All my girlfriends have been heavier than me, and I have never had a problem with it . I think guys that put weight, or any other appearance factor, as an issue above personality are shallow and need to broaden their views .

Yup, weight is most likely the biggest factor that determines a man's interest in a woman .

Those that disagree with me don't want to admit it

To be honest, a heavier girl isn't as attractive. They can still be cute. But I work out, and I take care of my body, so I look for a girl who does the same. And it's not really the "weight" its more the body shape. Obviously if you're taller, you're going to weigh more. But I think it's important for both girls and guys to take care of their bodies. Another thing that guys look at when it comes to a girl and her weight, is that we know that once you're married it will probably get worse. Usually girls once they get married and have a kid or 2, they usually put on a little weight. So if she's a little heavy to begin with, chances are it will only get worse.

There are a lot of very attractive, pretty women who are heavier. A pretty face is a pretty face! If they were thinner, just about everyone would say they are knock-outs! So weight is pretty much a personal preference. Just being heavy does not make a girl unattractive. Plus, there are other traits involved that have nothing to do with weight, that make a girl attractive. Like personality!

Because I can do this anonymously, I will answer truthfully.

I would never be attracted with a girl who is overweight. I could never be with a girl who is overweight. All those little bulges and blips and cellulite. Ewwww!

I am polite to people who are overweight and am even friends with many. Which is why I keep my personal beliefs to myself. They can be viewed as shallow but they are my feelings and I don't apologize for them.

I go after girls that are of average weight (BMI of 25 or less) for their height and with a beautiful face. I'm not a big fan of makeup on girls because I want to see their true beauty. Once I have found a girl that has these characteristics, I find out about her personality and get to know here to see how she is. If I don't really like her personality then ill just stick as a friend with her but if her personality is awesome then ill take the bait. So far I haven't met a heavy set girl that has taken my heart away so my answer could change. Nonetheless, personality is a big plus.

That sometimes depends.

I am just being honest. If she is overweight and obviously knows it! She can come across as 'offensive', but that's not because she actually is so called 'overweight' its because she may have developed an attitude.

Conversely, I can think of a friend of mine who is self confessed 'overweight' but she is so lively and has a fantastic sense of humour that quite frankly 'i would love to nail her', (and go out with her as well - I might add)

Yes, weight matters. You don't have to be a size 0, but if you're overweight/fat then it will negatively affect your chances with guys. Guys want a girl they are attracted to. Unattractive girls with good personalities are just called "friends".

It does matter, not just to guys but for us girls as well .

Sweetie -- you know it matters. Why else would girls spend SOOO much time and energy on this issue? But personality matters a lot, too. Have you ever seen the movie "Hairspray"? If not, you should.