Am I Ugly?

i wouldn't say you're ugly

but you are fat enough to turn many guys off.

some exercise and a good diet will help you lose weight and increase you confidence along with the amount of guys who are attracted to you

You're Cute but you need to lose some weight.

You're not ugly, just overweight.

Not ugly just too much weight for me

I'm not going to bother reading what others have said, because people are foolish. Listen to me though~ My dear, you are a lovely young woman. You have a warm and beautiful face that immediately brings a smile to my face. You are a little overweight, but certainly not 'huge.' Frankly, most of America is fat (and people should get over it). If you do not like your current figure, then invest some time in making some lifestyle changes.

Examples: focus on permanently developing more natural and healthy eating habits. Set some goals, what dress size do you want to be in? What weight? Are there any other particulars you want to consider making over? Set your goals and stick to them. Now, what do you need to do to accomplish these goals? Consult experts and formulate your battle plan. It isn't hard, it just requires diligence and patience. You won't get where you want to be in a day, but one year from now you could be whatever you want.

You are beautiful, don't let anyone else tell you otherwise, but you should take care of your body for the sake of your health (longterm) and your personal goals. Don't lose confidence in yourself. You'll be fine my dear.


-Count D.

Okay. I read some of the responses below and don't agree with them. You are cute and attractive.
If I said I would look at you pic while I was getting myself off, what would you say?

OMFG MY EYES! WHY WOULD YOU POST PICTURES LIKE THAT? JESUS CRIST YOU ARE SOOO UGLY! IF YOU POSTED YOUR FACE ON A WALL THE SUN WOULDNT RISE! OMFG MY EYES!

Honestly your not ugly but it may be the weight issue. If you lost some weight (im not saying this to be mean btw) you would look way better. You have a cute face and all and if you lost a little weight you would be really good looking

You seem to have a decent face and skin. But you are WAY to fat. Put that double decker sandwich down! Start walking! STOP BEING FAT! Start caring about yourself! Until then, you will only get losers.

LMAO FAT? You're mad. You're body may not be like mine, but you are definitely not an unattractive girl. Here's a clue stop going for the "hotties", because those are the shallow loser,user, and abusers. I don't understand why women always choose to go for the guys that clearly don't care about them... It is for this that I have no sympathy for you. Get out of your "perfect tan, 2 inch biceps, straight teeth, perfect hair, 6 pack" mentality for men and it will become clear how many great guys are out there. Also for your information people always try to demean others when they themselves are lacking. Simply because someone calls you something does not mean it is true. If I called you daughter of satan would that make it true? The solution to your problem is obvious. STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF. DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. I was always made fun of at middle school for being a light weight so I did push ups and curl ups 10 minutes for both every day for the first week, then 15 minutes the next and kept going in 5 minute intervals. Until I was able to pick up the biggest one of those guys and toss him 4 feet.

Ok first a disclaimer: There's no point in me answering "no you're 100% perfect", because we'll both know I'm just lying to make you feel better. THAT SAID, don't take ANY of this in a mean way, I'm simply trying to answer you're question

1: Body
Look, lets face it, your fat. But a large percentage of us now are. I'm fat too (and I play rugby union no less!). But, you aren't (from the looks) obese, and you 'wear it well' (that is, you dress appropriately for your body. So, whilst it's not your best asset, your in with a chance.

2: Face
Quite a nice face. Your complexion is good, you have high cheek bones (which give a cute/baby face)

3: Hair
Dreads don't do it for me at the best of times, and they don't (IMO) sit well on larger people. You could perhaps try a different style, but keep the length (maybe a fraction shorter). Don't take too much hair off because the hair makes your face look smaller by comparison (IE, makes you look like you're thinner).

4: Mouth
I made this as a stand alone, because I think this is your "worse" feature (again, don't take offense please). When you smile, your smile's rather 'deadpan' and flat. This gives the appearance of not really 'trying' to smile, and that in turn conjurers negative ideas. "This person isn't smiling, I don't want to talk to her if she's not a happy person". It may seem an extreme leap, but it's all about "selling the product" and the product is YOU!


All that said, are you ugly? No. What I hope girls one day learn is that guys aren't fussy. We find the majority of girls 'pleasant' to look at. Sure some girls might be 'hot', but very very few are ugly. Infact, most of the time the word ugly gets used is in extreme case, such as a meth abuser; or for emotionally ugly (nasty girls).

link was probably your best picture out of them (IMO). Maybe tweak your hair do and have some more confidence, through on a smile, and you'll be fine.

oh sweetie, you're not ugly.
You're just fat.

the face is adorable though.

i can tell you now... once you loose that weight you will be pretty damn hott! SO GET RUNNIN AND THEN THE BOYS WILL!

I am going to say this once, and you better listen.

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GET SOME CONFIDENCE DAMN IT!
Asking people to tell you how you look isn't going to make you feel better.
Yeah, most men think with their little head and would choose a skinnier girl, but why the hell would you want a man like that? There are plenty, believe me, PLENTY of men who want a girl with some cushion for the pushin'. A lot of men do not like bony little girls, especially if they have no personality what so ever. I know a girl who is 230 pounds, and she has had tons of boyfriends. Why? Because she gets out there, and doesn't care what skanky men think. When you don't care, and get out and socialize, you'll meet someone who likes you. You are going to waste your life away if you focus on what a few morons think of your outsides. Every man on earth can't think you're fat. The ones who do, are IDIOTS. You don't want them, you want a real guy who wants you more than just for sex.

Besides, if you think about it, you have CURVES. A BUTT. BREASTS. Most skinny girls have no ass, ribs poking out and mosquito bites on their chests. What guy wouldn't want curves? You're going to meet a lot of jerks, but if you ignore them you'll find a nice one eventually.
Take a look at yourself and say, "I could weigh 500 pounds so I should be quiet and enjoy my great curvy body, because some girls don't even have this. Boy am I f***ing lucky!" and start boosting your confidence darling!

i don't see why guys judge by weight your really pretty your face is beautiful I love your hair :D
and your sence of style is really good and you seem like a good person so if guys are judging you
by your weight than there not good enough but if you feel you have to lose a couple pounds go for it but your pretty the way you are ^^

omg. I looked at these pics and the first thing I thought was omg she's beautiful. you have a lovely face. as for the weight part, I think 10 pounds would be the best amount to lose and that wouldn't be hard at all. try cardio! its whar I do. good luck, dear. you are beautiful.

I didn't bother to look because it's irrelevant. I will respond to your post. How you feel about yourself will go a long way in people finding you attractive, regardless of what you look like. And if weight is your problem - there are several ways to lose it and not have to sit around wishing you looked more like your sisters or liked yourself more. This is in your hands and no one else's. If you think you are fat, do something about it. No one else can or will do it for you. Be who you want to be and the universe will work with you.

omg are you kidding me I won't lie you can lose weight not too much though a girl looks nice when she is kinda thick but other that that you are beautiful...from the hair to the smile to the eyes everything...i'm really not just saying this when I went to answer this question I though I wasn't gonna answer cause I thought you would've been kinda ugly but I was shocked that you would even think that ur not really attractive...hope this helps I know I'm kinda late...u seem nice 2

You're gorgeous Love, don't put yourself down.
You could loose weight, but hey, a lot of us could (me included) But you wear it well and know how to dress.
You really are gorgeous though(:

dont listen to anyone that calls you fat. you're not! I think you're really pretty. you have great skin. anyone that calls you fat or ugly are jus douche bags. they don't know what true beauty is.

:hugs: People can be incredibly hurtful, even if they're just trying to help. I know it hurts. BUT, you have a great opportunity here. You can prove them wrong, and ultimately shut everyone up. Accept your body for how it is, but know that we can improve what we've already got. I struggle with my weight and body confidence, but knowing that people who talk about me will have nothing negative to say once I run my 1/2 marathon... well that's something I can hardly wait for.

Really? ...i have seen worse in my day, so what are you talking about?!

But anyway your not ugly! for goodness sakes if I knew your name id scream at you for thinking that way about yourself! and your not FAT either my god people don't know the definition nowadays and why are people calling you huge? your just chubby but that's it, you'll be fine if you joined a sport. Loose a few pounds BOOM! your a hot piece xDD but really just take care of youself change for yourself and be happy dammit if people talk sh*t so what? they don't pay your f***in bills why do they matter? they don't so f*** them f*** the world and keep it moving :) peace, love, and take care <3

You are not ugly at all. I like that picture with the pink shirt.

but am not gonna lie you are fat. but that's not a big deal just go runing and do something about it, don't just set there and keep telling yourslef that your ugly :/

don't think you're ugly! you honestly aren't... ANd you are not that fat, you're not thin, but you're not obese... I think if you exercised daily, (no diet!) you would be fine! (well don't eat too much junk, but eat normally) I think your look says "glamor" and I think you wear it well. ANd about what bersaba said, I think your mouth is fine, you just need to smile more with your eyes... ANd I know that pictures aren't the best thing to show people... it seems like they change your smile.. no?
Anyways, don't worry, you are NOT ugly... =)

if your sisters are really skinny they might think your bigger compared to them but trust me your not ugly! the way you wrote this question, I was expecting to see some super obese girl. if you are unhappy with your figure, work out and eat right because you have the power to change it. your body is proportional so you carry your weight well, you are curvy...have you ever seen girls that are bigger but they don't have curves so theyre kinda shaped like a refridgerator? you don't have that problem. if you want to lose about 30 lbs. to get your figure perfect you can, but your still fine the way you are. you are very pretty and cute, you just need to get some swagger about yourself. guys can tell if your self conscious and don't have much confidence and its not that attractive. men like a woman that knows she's hot.

use that as motivation. you are soo beautiful even with the extra weight. but when you lose it (dont have to lose a lot) you will be a certified dime!

I think, if a guy liking you depends on your weight, he's not that great of a guy. You're really pretty regardless of your weight, and I'm surprised you don't already have guys who are attracted to you. It's not as if people who are overweight never find relationships (you can see all sorts of people in relationships pretty much everywhere you go, or at least I can).

The way I think about it, not being conventionally pretty is a nice filter to get rid of the guys who only like you because of the way you look. I'm pasty white and freckly, and I don't have to worry about the assholes like my tanner, blonder friends do. Sure, guys will randomly yell at me to "get a tan," but I just thank them for giving me notice to avoid them like the plague. Why would I want to date anyone like that anyway?

You are very cute, really =\
you might be a bit chubby..you can lose the extra pounds easily though, otherwise, your face is cute! That's an honest answer, you should never think you are ugly!

You're overweight, but not horribly so. You've got a pretty face and nice hair. The extra weight is the only issue and that's totally correctable. I think even losing 15 or 20 pounds would lead to a lot more positive male attention. That's doable in just a couple months if you really try. Really, 2-3 pounds a week is pretty easy and if you keep it up your total would drop in a hurry. Just cut the calories (and count them carefully) and work out. It'll really be a lot easier than you think once you set a rhythm. It gets easier too, once you start to see results and like what's happening.