What's up with women dressing provocative?

the compliment started out nice but ended kinda creepy. ur intentions may of been nice but ur delivery needs a little work. we do like it when guys notice that we look sexy but we don't want guys to do catcalls or give us lines. just stick with "ur really gorgeous".

Hmm.thats odd. It's a nice complement actually. I mean it's not like you commented her breasts or something. The one thing I can't stand is when I'm walking to work, mind you in work attire and men honk their horn at me. I don't know but that annoys the hell outta me. I'm not even dressing provocatively then. lol. But I had a guy comment on how my heels looked great on me, I just said thank you, who knows why women get angry half the time we do?! lol.

I would find it a little weird, actually. Maybe because it seems to imply that you were kind of obsessed (noticing a pedicure and then checking to see if she'd had a manicure). It somehow seems a little too personal to me.

I agree with you, women should be open to receiving this kind of attention if they dress as though they want it. I know that when I put in the extra effort, I'm hoping someone will compliment me, or even hit on me ;) I mean really, how are you supposed to go out in a short skirt or low-cut top without knowing that you are going to attract some sort of male attention?

I don't know. I'd find it rather flattering. Unless you had a creepy look on your face when you said it or your tongue hanging out. I don't see anything wrong with anything you did or said. Maybe she was PMSing lol *shrugs

I think that approach was creepy, despite what I would guess were 'neutral' intentions.

Girls know that you look at them, that's why they dress like that. But you have to remember that they also want you to get to know them.

First of all, I think your approach was a little odd. I wouldn't really comment specifically on what you like about her, if it's her toes, her tits, or her fingertips, keep it to yourself. Tell her she's stunning and that's it. Let her gay friend tell her that he likes the particulars.

I don't know why it is, but playing the dumb guy works a lot better than being style savvy. If you are in fact style savvy, then let your dress and grooming show her.

Honestly, a lot of girls would find what you said to her as creepy, mainly because guys aren't really supposed to recognize those kinds of things and her response might have just been to lash out because she didn't really know how to react.

The other thing is that if you were the fourth guy to stop her, that you were already at a disadvantage as she may have been fed up with continuously being hit on by guys she didn't find attractive, and if she didn't find you attractive, she's not going to let you down easy.

The thing is, that she IS doing it for herself. The catch is that the looks she gets from guys when she's all dolled up make her feel good and that's her main motive. So I agree with you, it is just a dumb situation in general.