ONe time in PE my crush and I and another friend were walking the track together. My friend was in between us. We were all talking, and he told us that he and his friend say to this girl "Hey jessica looking good today" an she tells them to f*** off. Of course that made me a little jealous because the girl is pretty. He also used to kind of annoy my friend right in front of me. Like we would be doing warm ups and he would purposely get in her way or like knock her down or something, but I always only saw him do it to her when I was around. And of course I got jealous then too. But then I started thinking maybe he said that and did that to make me jealous? Because I think he likes me just from other stuff he's done and I have asked about it on here and I have gotten positive responses. Because he was partly ignoring my friend because he was trying to find out my schedule. He said Hey Katie what's your schedule for next semester. And he was trying to find out my schedule (and I read that when he says your name it is good because he means he is thinking of you and not just a person). And I could tell he was trying to ask me casually it a not obvious way. But sorry that was not the point. So would a guy do something like that to try to make a girl jealous?
Update: Thanks everyone. I think I am onvernanalyzing it. I tend to do that a lot. Some things I think I am right about, but this is probably just nothing out of the ordinary.
5 months ago
I think you're overanalyzing the situation. He probably made that comment to the girl just to be silly, because he probably didn't say it in a serious way. My guess is that he did it to try to make you laugh, not to make you jealous. Besides, you're not in a relationship with him, so he's free to flirt however he likes without worrying about hurting anyone's feelings (unless he already knows that you like him). It's not clear how much he likes you, and asking about your schedule is not really out-of-the-ordinary behavior. Basically, don't read too much into his actions.
I don't believe this is as serious as you're believing it to be. I'm not seeing any behavior that rings out as a guy with an ulterior motive, or a plan utilizing diversions.
If you're tired of waiting on him to make a move, get assertive and ask him out.
(Age:Under 18)
When: 5 months ago
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