i was hanging out with friends last night and a mutual friend of theirs meets up with us and we go to a house party, good looking girl and I start talking to her and we're talking at my friend's house and also at the party but I felt I missed something but I might blame that on the beer cause she was flirting and giving me looks that were telling me take her somewhere else and talk but I didn't cause I was keeping tabs on my friends also(they tend to drink too much) so we just hung out and when we left we went to eat and then went to my friend's house and when we were all leaving, we kiss each other on the cheek and go. did I miss something because I didn't get a number because since I overthink everything and since I'm seeing her next weekend I didn't find a need to, so did I miss something?
If anything, that should not be a mistake. Definitely a good call for not coming off as aggressive, knowing that there was another opportunity to see her again. If she was beckoning you and you were cool about it and didn't waiver to fall head-over-heels, you come off as a fairly cool guy, not desperate and looking to hook up with any girl that shows you attention.
Best of luck to you next time you see her. I bet she is thinking about why you didn't ask for her number and how she should show more charm to wheel you in the next time you meet. :) The ball is in your court.
To be honest I didn't ask her for her number cause I want to give her mine and I wanna see if she calls, because if she does then I'm good. - A month ago
You're the guy, you are the hunter, you get her number and tell her when you want to meet her. She could give you her number and she might even like you a lot but you would then be leaving things to chance. Take control of the situation and be the one in charge where you want to take things. - A month ago
If you are going to meet her the next weekend anyway then there should be no problems. Get her number there then. Plain and simple.
Without thinking about it, you actually made a good move not asking for her number there and then. Assuming of course you are 100% sure you will see her again. If you don't see her again then you'll be banging your head in the wall. :)
May I ask why you didn't make any move to ask her for her number? It takes 30 seconds to get a girls number assuming she's all ready to give it to you.
I posted a long story with questions in it last night, and haven't gotten too many responses, maybe it was too long and the questions not clear enough...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
My first date, walk in the park wouldn't be a bad thing, Just regular clothes nothing special.Watch the moon raise up or sun go down one of the other .
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
That I am sensitive and that I get shy easily? hmm Maybe a little funny.