do guys like girls that are super tiny that wear XS with the perfect body.or do they like a girl with a more filled out body and not as tiny as a stick. bc I fit into size S but I get a M because I like things a little bigger. but I'm still worried that about my weight. bc at my school all the guys always talk crap about the bigger people and judge them.and if guys do like super tiny bodies.why?
O yes. Guys actually like girls who may be 10 to 30 pounds over weight. We call them thick women. Anna nicole smith was a top model. Maria carry is one of the sexiest women on the planet. Both carry 20 to 30 pounds anna nicole maybe 40 pounds more then the coke thin girls. Don't get me wrong Jennifer anderson, courtney cox and Jessica simpson are attractive but a little too thin. A full figured women can be very attractive. So if you are about 5 foot 6 and would be coke thin at 115. 145 or even 150 is a great look. Just try not to put on more then 30 pounds. That's wear you run into trouble. Christie Alley on cheers was hot. Christy Alley today is a little over the top. So you don't have to be coke skinny. I would rather see Maria naked then Jessica simpson any day.
The average guy I don't think is going to know anything about female clothing sizes.
Most guys don't want super tiny girls. They want girls from around 5ft to 5.8ft tall, usually, who aren't overweight, and don't have flabs of fat (as far as bodies go).
I think it is definitely girls that push the stick thin image way more than guys. All the guys I have known all like girls with a little meat on them. Yea people make fun of "big" people, but as stated many times by others already: guys like meat on their girls. There is an "in-between" and that's what guys seem to prefer. That's in general of course. You do have guys who want stick thin girls and you have chubby chasers and everything in between. Some guys go for boobs, others for butts. And even within that, some guys like 'em small, some like 'em big. But in general guys prefer us to be a little bigger than we females think is "ideal". In high school I was a stick thin girl. Not by choice, but because I'm one of those people who can't hardly gain weight no matter what she tries. Now I have a little more meat on my bones and the reaction has been very favorable from guys. They liked me before, but they seem to like me way more now.
To paint a bit of a picture for you: High school I was 5'8" and 110 pounds Today I am 5'8" and 140-150 pounds
Honestly I feel a little on the fat side because I got used to being SOOOOO thin, but guys are always telling me how much they love my body. It's a little ridiculous really.
For the guys that do like thin girls, there could be many reasons and it may not even be explainable. I have pretty eclectic tastes, I like a WIDE range of things in a guy. But I do tend to go for lean, or even thin guys. Like insanely thin, lol. Why do I like it? I don't know. I just DO. So I'm not sure a guy could say WHY he likes thin girls. But I don't think it's the average opinion of men at all.
I think guys are attracted to a women with a more "filled out body". Why? because it's realistic and is attractive in its own way. I think that a little bit of curve is always a good thing. What guys do feel turned off by is when a girl is overweight - and we all know what that looks like. There is a fine line between thick and fat. And I think blue-kev explained that well enough about not putting on more than 30 - 40 pounds.
High school guys are jerks (most of them anyways - no offense). The story outside of high school is a LOT different than the story that happens inside the highschool. But, that's not to say some guys don't prefer a skinny girl, they do but that's when your decide whether or not you want to attract that type of personality because everyone is different. As far as the "why?" is concerned for liking skinny girls - I think its because "skinny" is what guys see as "hot" and "Sexy" mostly coming from the media itself which is why women always feel so pressured to look like a stick. The idea of a skinny chick is what guys automatically think of as attractive - once again the type of image portrayed by the media. But, this is real life and the realistic guys know what they are looking for. And from what I know majority of the guys prefer a bit of a thicker women as oppose to someone who's a stick figure.
I hang out with a bunch of guys and we go hang out they comment on the girls that walk by and always like the "thick" girls but the ones that are "stick ppl" they kind of snikker and make jokes.
It's society today that sticks this idea in everyone's head that ultra thin is beautiful. Thankfully things are starting to change. In high school people are shallow (not all of them) and they tend to go off of looks. As you get older you will find that people will grow up. I am a curvy girl. I always have been. I am not fat but yes I can't fit in xs as I have a big butt and a size c chest. In high school I was the same way. I'm Latin. Anyhow, my fiance loves that I'm not a stick figure and that I have curves. The thing is, as you get older people find out what they are really into. Just as we all are different shapes, sizes, colors, personalities so are people's likes and dislikes. There are some men who love bigger women and others who prefer petite women. Sometimes skinny men like big women or vice versa. It's all on what your preferance is. High school is an awkward time. It gets better.
Every guy likes different things. Some guys like really skinny girls and some don't. My boyfriend doesn't really like tiny tiny girls he said they have to have some kind of meat no them. Just find a guy who likes you for you. I know it may be hard because everyone else out here is experiencing and all that stuff but don't worry about what they think. Hope I helped.
I've always worried a little about guys who only like super tiny girls. I've known a few guys like this and there's been enough in common with them that I've formed sort of a theory. Like I've wondered if maybe they want to reduce women in their mind, or can only deal with women that they find to be physically insignificant. Or if possibly they are threatened by strong women and are only attracted to women that they could easily physically dominate. If that is the case, it'd be a little troubling, I think.
I will say that this is pretty much the most unscientific thing ever, and really only based on observing a handful of guys and noting their preferences.
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