How do I make myself attractive?

Everyone is right. Confidence, Confidence, Confidence. Know that you are sexy in a dress or jogging pants. With make-up or without make-up. Hands down I find a woman who knows that she's sexy, and woman who is confident with who she is and how she looks no matter the size(to an extent of course) to be the most attractive.

In terms of shyness it can be seen as a lack of maturity or interest if you're too shy. Don't ignore someone you are attracted to. You have to try and be more inviting in your demeanor. The start of that is with a smile. It's hard to describe how to do it, but ignoring someone is the definite opposite of that. You definitely have to learn to smile more. If you feel like smiling, then do it. Don't think too much about it. It sounds like you're over-analyzing. You have to go more with your feelings as opposed to your thoughts. You will never get over it if you continue to hide behind your shyness.

Ignoring someone you're attracted to definitely sends out the wrong signals ;)

Self-confidence is attractive; it sounds like you're happy with your looks which is a big plus, so try to relax & go with the flow.

If you'd like to do something active to improve your confidence around people, you could try taking a course in something like public speaking (Toastmasters is one good organisation for this) or maybe acting. These won't necessarily make you any less inherently shy, but they'll help you develop some skills you can use to be less worried about being around people.

Good luck.

Confidence.Being to shy can be a turn off.cute shy is a turn on. Ifyou think your hot then your hot. Build that confidence up

it's just personality. I've seen ugly girls pull men without being slutty because they are confident. you can look like lauren london but if you are not confident it will read as unapproachable/unattractive to guys.

this is what I do: upon waking up in the morning tell yourself that you are gorgeous, beautiful, hot, the baddest chick ever. do it about 10 times or however many times you need to. also say that before you leave the house. you have to believe you're attractive or others wont

most men prefer woman who are more outgoing.

Has anyone ever told you that its start with personality? I know its cheesy but it the most down to earth thing I can possibly tell you. Beauty start with within, and when you embrace it, everyone will notice it.

You just need more confidence! I'm a shy girl too, so I know how you feel! Sometimes I just stand there with nothing to say, my face turns red and I walk away, which is not a good thing. Just have to walk with you head up and smile. Guys love girls who have confidence and are upbeat! Just make small talk and stay positive, I'm sure a lot of guy are intimidated by beautiful girls that's why sometime we have to make the move lol good luck girl