Does it bother you...?

I love a little cushion for the pushin'.

I like Barbie Thin, but they don't like me. :-) But size 13 is good too. Confidence in the size you are is more important than anything. And do the part you can do to stay healthy and in shape. Also, be realistic about the kind of guy you are attracted to.

Example. My 28 year old son has red hair, freckles, glasses, he is short, 30 lbs over weight, and still lives with his mom, but will not look at a girl unless she is smoking hot. He is alone and a virgin. Go figure.

Good Luck,
James

I like it

It does not bother me it depends on the personality

I always liked the bigger girls.

YUMM ! !

No it is kinda cute. You would be amazed how many guys you would get if you just exude some confidence. Guys are not as hard on girls as girls are on themselves.

I wouldn't do a girl I couldn't bench press.

Just a few (unsorted)alternative ways to see it:
-Personality and character have more importance than hip size and in general they will remain the same for a long time, hip size usually expands with time.
-Rounder women seem to feel happier, according to this study: link
->Life with a happy woman is much easier than with an unhappy one.
-If her brains and hearth match the tag in her clothes it's ok.
-The guy who just loves a girls' body will have few reasons to say NO to the cheerleader and cheerleaders date too.
-Barbie is 50, made out of plastic and completely empty, would have severe back pain and unable to conceive children

Now convince the guys. :D:D

I don't date girls who are bigger then a -2 (negative 2) I fnd over weight girls repulsive!

Of course I don't really mean what I typed up there lol. honestly I don't mind aslong as they are sweet and fun to hang out with. I would totally date someone of that size :)

Not at all. For me proportion and fitness are more important than the size on the tag. Besides, 11-13 really is not that large.

first things first, it depends for every guy but personally fro me, I don't mind it at all!

Does it bother you if a guy is a little on the heavy side? If so, why? If not, ok. Might even answer your own question.

I don't know if I could ever date a big woman. She'd have to be so awesome it's unreal. Thin up or go for the chubby guys or skinny shy tools.

This is hard because it has multiple answers.
I have met many VERY attractive women that were on the heavy side. AND I have met very unattracttive women that all you could focus on their weight and insecurities.
Think of a car race and both of the cars are a Ford Taurus. One is a very experienced race car driver and the other sucks!
Now take that great race car driver and put him up against another driving a Porsche.
You know who would win both races.
So you can make the best of this! but leaning down a bit would help you...
here is a post about getting guys to chase you!
link
I think I will write a post about this!

hun I have no idea how american sizes work:P but I'm defenatly not a skinny girl:P and I totally get what you mean... But the thing is, most guys don't even like skinny girls that much, they like something to hold on to;) And it really should never ever mean that you'll settle for someone you don't really like... You should check out my profile pic of me and my bf, he is really athletic and he never used to be into bigger girls, well... I still got him;)
If a guy has some balls and isn't afraid of a reall women you will defenatly get him;)

my friend is heavier and she gets hit on more. she's more outgoing than I am. I'm a little more picker than she is. that's just one reason. some guys are all game for it

i live in australia, and I'm a size 10, wich would be a size 4 there. and I get called fat now! it ridiculious how some people can be so judgemental of women. I think your a beautiful girl.

have the confidence, and you can attract anyone:)

goodluck

it depends on how ur body distributes fat

if you are an hourglass or have a brickhouse type body then guys will like it. if ur appleshaped and short wit it and have a huge gut, then it will bother a lot of guys

jean size doesn't make you fat and guys don't really care about it. its about how you look and remember everyman has his preference. as long as ur not obese or moderately overweight, you will still be able to pull a good number of guys

It just depends on taste. Some guys would never date a chubby girl and some guys ONLY date chubby girls.

I'm going to disagree with everyone. Before I had my daughterI weighed 115lbs, I was 5'5'' .. guys hit on me yes, but after I had my daughter I was more around 150, and MORE guys hit on me, the same group that hit on me at 115 even said they thought I looked better with a little meat on my bones... #1 it's all about confidence no one wants to date any girl that have to constantly feed compliments too. Another thing does have to do with where, and how your weight is positioned. Evely distribuited isn't as bad as all sititng in your gut.

Most important thing isn't what the guys think anyways, it's about your health. If you're eating Fast food everyday, or icecream everynight, proportions big enough for you and a friend. That's not healthy. I'm not saying throw all the junk food out your house, but be concious of what your eating, and even more concious about keeping your heart healthy by doing some form of cardio.

at the end of the day you are your judge. if you look in the mirror and see something you're not happy with well then there is only one choice,. Change it into something you're proud of.,

I can sympathize with you because I use to be chubby, but then I started eating right and working out in high school. Maybe you should try to do the same. Once you get started it feels so good. It just takes a little will power and determination. You will feel better about yourself if you do.