Most of today's male models, as well as young actors, have cleanly shaven chests, yet some men still insist on sporting the fur. If women could design their own "perfect man" and they could only choose between "hairy" and "shaved" chests, which would "the perfect man" have?
Shaved chests are best. If he shaves up on top, then he probably shaves (or at least trims on the bottom), and that makes oral as well as everything else sooo much more pleasant!
Perfect would be without hair, but I don't mind if they have some, if I like a guy then it does not matter I just like him with or without chest hair. hairy butt or/and back however is a serious turnoff.
If you have a naturally hairy chest then just leave it alone, I hate when men try to shave anything but their face, and if they have a hairy back then need to wax it! That's perfect
I would want in between. If your chest is on the verge of bestial, shave it or even better get electrolysis so its the way you want it--sexy. The thing about shaving is its so gross when you have stubble. Especially if its summer and a girl who likes you runs over in a bikini and hugs you and feels stubble (yikes! ) but if you are veryyy hairy and look like a bear it could stop that girl from running over in the 1st place!
I'm curious because my hair is slightly thick but it's not that bad. If I trim it it looks alright too, but shaving has always been way too much...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
For me the first date is about getting to know the other person. I prefer a quiet venue, a place like a coffee shop or a dignified restaurant.
I dress well on first dates, wearing a nice shirt and jacket, sometimes with matching slacks, other times with jeans.
The date ends with a hug or a kiss (or both); I want to connect emotionally before going further.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
She will know that I'm funny, smart, and interesting. She will know a little about my career, my family, and my life, without too much information (to be boring or overly personal) being given on any subject.
She will also know that I'm a good listener, someone who has an interest in what she has to say (provided that it isn't boring or creepy!)