If you're muscular or at least trim and fit, I think the shaved look seems more consistent with the physique. But if you're pudgey or soft, the extra hair seems more fitting and comfortable (I think seeing a short, fat hairless guy might look a little odd, and sort of jaba-da-hut-ish).
I do have hair on my chest, and I get very different reactions with the girls. Back then when I was working out, muscle and "pumped," I got pretty positive attention from the girls. I'm pretty sure they thought I was a very manly guy. But now that I stop working out and have shrunk down, some reacted as if I have poor hygiene. My response? I'd keep the hair on my chest anyway. Nature has intended me to be a MAN with a hairy chest and deep voice. Oh a side note, if you are hairy or have hair on your chest, then one of your ancestor originated from a very very cold place--Siberia. Back in history, it was soo cold that men had to evolve chest hair to endure Siberia, which is the coldest place on earth. Anyhow, I will not shave or wax my manliness off ;) The most I'll do is trim it a bit. The American culture is very clean fetish. It's like they're saying a man is only sexy when he is next to hairless.
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