Am I right or just scared?
So I've been talking to this guy who my best friend knows and he is really sweet. We have been texting and its obvious that we both really like each other. We have been both known for going wayyyy tooo fast in relationships and getting too clingy. But the other day we were hanging out and one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex. Before it happened I told him only if he promised not to run after it happened, and he did promise. But now he's acting all weird like not talking to me and when he does talk to me its not the same, no more random smileys or texts saying how he wishes I could cuddle. And when I ask when we can hang out next he is always "busy." so I asked him if he was avoiding me and if he just wanted to get in my pants and now that he did he's not interested. He said no that he really is busy and like he said before we did it that he wasn't ready to go out with me yet (which I'm fine with as long as he doesn't just use me.) I have no problem with being just sex partners as long as he tells me that that is all he wants right now. I have been hurt before by guys using me for sex then running. He says he's not and he promised when we first started talking that he would never lie to me no matter how badly he thought it would hurt me. I just can't shake the feeling that he is trying to run... Do you think I am right or is it just my fear of being used coming up?
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