You can certainly tell her you care about her but you can't expect her to dump that guy she's with and run off with you. You will need to give her time to make up her own mind as to who she wants to be with ( you can't force her) and for now.. you really have to respect THEIR relatoinship. Wouldn't you expect the same from the girl you were with? Keep your polite distance - be supportive - be her friend... and hopefully.. soon... she will see the light. She will dump him after he's hurt her one more time... and you can be there to dry her tears. Don't interfere. Don't tell her the guy she's with is a loser. It only makes you sound jealous and petty. You may be perfectly RIGHT in your conclusions.. but SHE has to figure it out.. HERSELF. Don't be pushy -- be a friend. THAT will win her over faster than you telling her that her choices suck. Good luck.
Well, take into consideration this scenario: you tell her, she tells her boyfriend and he tells her to never talk to you again and she listens. You may loser her forever.
Usually when people are in a relationship, esp. with titles, it's because they want to be in that relationship and if she's only in it until something better comes along, keep in mind if she breaks up with him for you there's a chance she'll do the same to you when some other guy comes along and tells her he likes her.
hmm probable she is trying to tease you cus she knws you like her maybe. definitely tell her you like her, may change her mind and dump her boyfriend. hhow long have you knwn her?
yes I say go for it. A girl likes someone who treats her well... she might just be with him until someone better comes a long.
If she really likes him then it will just backfire on you, but if they are on shaky terms then you could probably pull it off. Her boyfriend may get p*ssed though if he finds out..so I guess you just have to wiegh your options.
Go For it
if you like her, then by all means, tell her! but you should considert he consequences as well. make sure she likes you too, and that she's getting over her boyfriend. also, make sure her boyfriend isn't one of those aggressive guys that will hunt you down. good luck!
I would tell her, if you feel that way about her then yes. What happens if you never told her that would be a million what ifs.
Yeah, let her know. You have nothing to lose. YOu don't want to live with regrets.
you should deffentley tell her, and if you think her boyfriend is a loser and not right for her then it would be even better to get her out of a sh*t relationship and be with a guy like you that cares.
Depends. You may be able to treat her better in your opinion, but what would she think? Also take into factor how she may feel if you tell her that. Will it change your friendship with her? And also if you were her boyfriend, how you would feel if some guy came up to your girlfriend telling her that he could do better than you? You would probably feel like sh*t and be p*ssed.
Well first off think this to yourself:
how serios are they and will they break up on their own?
Other than that, go for it ^.^
but don't do it through text
you should forsure tell her how you feel, especially if you think the person she's with isn't treating her properly
I think you should. Some girls settle for guys they're not hot about, so if you came along and they were far more interested in u, you hav a chance. Also, it's not like your pushing her into anything, your just sharing your feelings.
Same situation lol :)
GO FOR IT too hell with the random ass who needs him
If you know her well, you should be able to tell her how you feel and ask her how she fells about you. That won't make things any more "weird" between you. But don't expect her to dump her boyfriend and start dating you. You need to go into it just wanting an answer. It worked for me. I didn't start dating her, but our relationship was stronger because we were honest with each other. Just be sure you want to know the answer.
I suppose you don't really stand to lose much by telling her. Do be careful that the boyfriend doesn't come after you. If she ends up splitting with the other guy, then maybe you would have planted a seed to let her know that you like her. Like I said though, be careful with the other guy. Would you appreciate another guy trying to make a move on your girlfriend? All these girls are answering like it's a romance movie lol.
If there is no ring on her finger she is available.