well, after my man broke up with me, he called a few days later, asking me something totally stupid. then, he said he hoped we can still be "friends." I said cool. no problem. then, a couple od days later after our alleged friendship, he grabbed me real close and said, :i don't wanna be your friend no more." during this friend process, he was already telling me that he felt stupid for doing and things like that.
All in all, if a guy wants you back, they'll find any kind of reason to call you and any kind of way to stay in your life. wait until he calls you. don't try to win him back. guys hate desperate, whiny women.
I guess I got my guy back by acting like it didn't bother me. when we had conversations, I acted like we had never met or we were just close friends. I don't know what they think when you do this, but it definitely makes them want you back and my relationship is better than ever.