How do you deal with being single?
I use to handle being single by keeping a guy or two around even if I'm not that into him, just so I could have someone to talk to and go out with. Recently I stopped doing that because I think that's not fair for the guy and its not fair for me either. Everyone deserve to be with someone that they're actually into & the feelings be mutual. So now that I've got rid of that "coping" method (dating guys I'm not that into while single) , I wanna hear from others what they do to deal with the single life.
1. Do you wait til love find you or do you search for it?
I've done both and got bad results. As I waited, only guys that I'm not that into approach me. When I made the move myself, I obviously went for the guys I actually like but that didn't work out in the long run either.
2. Should I just not focus on love at all and put all my attention in other things?
Its hard doing that. Somehow it pops into my head that I'm single and I feel lonely & bored sometimes.
3. what do you think I can do?
It's just boring and frustrating to meet/date so many guys and things just never work out. AND the crazy thing is I'm the one that's dumping them because either I'm just not that into them or something major like he have a girlfriend (relationship was on the VERGE of ending...as of now, its officially over but the fact that I was dating him when he was with someone still turned me off from him)
4. What do YOU do to deal with being single?
Thoughts? Thanks. Will Choose Best Answer :)
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