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Why isn't he calling?

So I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months, things got serious pretty fast and everything has been great. Its spring break and he went to... Show More

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  • Listen to the guys, they're right. You have no idea therefore, you shouldn't worry. Just know he's having fun, think about the things he said before he left, and trust him and yourself to get through the rest of the break.

    Get out of the house as well, don't sit around wondering if he'll call - go out with friends and have fun. He'll call just because he misses you, and that is by far the best call a girl can get, vs calling because he had to return a call.

What Guys Said 3

  • He probably just wanted to know that you were interested enough to call him anyway. ... But, you should tell him that he can't tell you to call him and then not pick up the phone when you do call.

    Aside from that, I hope it goes well. Good luck.

  • He may be lying face down and quite drunk at the beach getting a sunburn. :)

    Badbunny, you may be over thinking it and worrying yourself up over nothing.

    Your mind will play quite a few tricks on you if you let it wander off too much in the bad direction which can actually hurt your relationship more so than do any good.

    Let him return from vacation and take it from there.

  • I agree with ionlife. Don't jump to conclusions unless you have proof or evidence. There is no point in creating something that isn't there. It will just cause problems. Give him the benefit of the doubt until you have a reason to otherwise. He's on vacation, he's at the beach, he's hanging out with buddies. We lose track of time and sometimes forget to call. But don't worry about it. Now if he acts weird when he gets home, then you can suspect something. But just because he doesn't call doesn't mean anything.

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