Are you out of your mind? You broke up with him. What sane man would call the woman that just broke up with him? You ended the relationship, why would you want him to call you? This is why men think women are insane.
OK just re-read your question and the answer is there. YOU broke up with him after 9 years!...and then he lost his job! I wonder why he wouldn't want to talk to you...for the life of me figure it out before you ask such a ridiculous question.