He says he still loves me, so why'd he leave me?
My fiance left me the other day and moved all of his things out just this Sunday. He then texted me and asked me to come stay with him! What is this about? Well I went to stay with him and he kept telling how much he loved me and that he didn't want to be with anybody else. The next day I got ready for work and he kissed goodbye and told me he loved me then later that day I texted and told him I loved him and he replied with you can't expect me to say that when were not together, but just yesterday he texted and asked what he needed to work on and then later he came buy to hook up my stereo for me and kissed me goodbye and told me he loved me again. I am so confused right now. He says he feels the same but he needed to get away.
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Did he give any reasons for leaving, or were you both arguing about something before he left? The best thing to do now is talk things out. Let him know you would like to listen to anything that's on his mind, and your desire to work things out and get back together. Also, letting him know you are confused about what is going on is a good thing. He proposed to you already, so I doubt he is completely against the idea of staying with you and working things out. Maybe he did need some time to think things through, but at some point he should finish doing that and clue you in!
What Guys Said 3
He does sound very confused, you need to sit down and discuss these issues face to face.
I sounds to me he has cold feet! And not sure of himself. Tell him just how you feel and ask him straight up What's up with that! maybe things are going to fast for him, is he good with other commitments like work etc. does he like to be in control " be the boss at all times"does he act different around his friends?
Sounds to me like you almost married a flake. Good thing he did all this temper tantrum stuff before your first mortgage bill was due. Go find another guy to date. This is only going to get worse. Congratulations on separating the men from the boys. Now reward yourself with a night of hard drinking with the girls. Then see how you feel about it later.
What Girls Said 3
I have a few questions. Does your fiance have problems controlling his temper? Does he get angry about minor things? Does he yell at you when you argue? Do his moods seem to swing between happy and sad for no apparent reason?
How'd this turn out for you?
He has issues and doesn't know what he wants. I know you must be hurting though. How inconsiderate people can b sometimes. They just get up and leave without no explanation. They just go, leaving us behind like that. Well, girl, don't take him back because he'll do it again. He better have a good reason to tell you why he did what he did. He needs to communicate with you so you won't feel rejected. I'm sure you didn't do anything and maybe he isn't sure about getting married but he needs to let you know that.