My ex is with someone else but wants to keep in touch with me. Will he ever come back?
A year and half ago I've been with this guy for 5 months, he was separated but not divorced yet. We live 2 hours apart and used to see each other...
Oh I forgot..he has nice memories and thoughts about me and us but he still feels like I want more than he can give at the moment.I told him that distance is the killer of our relationship, that's why it will never work. Maybe I should have avoided it!
Most Helpful Girl
Keywords: "...BUT I KNOW I SHOULD MOVE ON." There's your answer.
IF HE WANTED TO BE WITH YOU, HE'D BE WITH YOU. No question about it...men hide behind this "I don't know" thing, thinking that you're gullible enough to fall for the lie. They know what they want, and it looks like he wants to date around and keep you as a "friend," so when he's sick of the next girl, he can come back to you and you'll be there waiting.
And HE'S MARRIED?!? ugh...so he probably has done the exact same thing to his wife.
Girl, leave him alone and let him clean up his life: get the divorce (because there'll NEVER be a future with a married man), and figure out if he's ready for a relationship and if it's with you. Otherwise, you're just getting used.
What Guys Said 2
The part that caught my attention was "but I know I should move on". You answered your own question. He is just coming out of a marriage, was he cheating while married? If he was, he's a player, he'll never be satisfied with one woman. Let him know that if you lived close to each other you could give the relationship a shot, but that this long distance relationship does not work for you.
You need to see what's in it for you? Pain, dissapointment, heartache or something so good that it's too hard to let go. Only you can decide this, but if he is always saying that he's thinking of you and in the future there may be a chance for the both of you, then you need to walk away now!
He lays down with someone else but thinks of you? That says it all Ithink..
If you wanted to be with someone then you would, it's simple.. being at a distance would not matter as it's just geographical, and it's a temprary thing.
What Girls Said 6
my advice is to not wait on this guy. move on with your life. be happy and just take care of yourself and honestly if I were you, I wouldn't count on him coming back. he's with someone else. the first thing that would come to my mind if I was in this situation is what are they doing? probably hooking up and...that would turn me off from returning to any ex boyfriend.
Will he f***, you're ugly.
MOVE ON :) girl, you need a new man that will except the pace you wanna take it. You can't rewind a relationship. Because if you could. I would have. But he likes this new girl, go get yourself unavalible. He will want you back. Trust me.
they always come back... the real question is, should YOU be there when he comes back? think logically, never let anybody walkall over you.
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