I've been stupid and made the biggest mistake ever and one that I will regret for the rest of my life regardless of what happens. I saw this other girl a handful of times and even told her I loved her when out drunk. I did not mean it. My girlfriend knows all this. It has only been 10 weeks since she found out. My girlfriend and I started seeing each other again and we're taking things very slow. She then said she needed space when she was going to stay with me for the first time since. After 2weeks of no contact she has said she can't get past what I've done. I told her I love her and won't give up on us. Her response was "ok". Do I just give her space for a few weeks and make contact then and attempt to start seeing her again? I know what I want and it's her. Please help?
- Move onVote A
- Don't give upVote B
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If you really love her then keep trying.
You broke her trust into a thousand pieces - this will take months even years to mend. Even then - she will never forget the way you made her feel, there will still resentment.
How fast she heals will depend on your ability to give her complete access to your privacy (phone/ messages/ every detail of your day). You must cut the person you cheated with out of your life!
You need to rebuild that trust - by the way she said "Okay" you still have a chance - but know that it's a long way to recovery - your relationship will never be the same.0