I have recently been dumped by the guy who I thought was, the love of my life. However, I opened up to my family and told them things that were being said to me and they have made me realise that what I was in was a emotionally and physically abusive relationship. I understand that most of the people reading this would think I am crazy, but I still can't get over him. I know that he has got it into my head that no one will ever love me and that I can't live without him, and part of me feels like it is true. I'm trying to find ways to move on, but I don't know how. How did you all move on from a break up?
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Yep he tried to control you by breaking you down any and every way possible cuz that's what weak guys do who are insecure and deep down inside he knows u are better and can do better than him and his destructive tactics.. truth is that u really and honestly don't need him to be happy, joyous, & fulfilled. You must love yourself 1st before anyone else can and the 2 of u must respect each other as well but he clearly doesn't cuz he thinks he's won and that u need him smh.. leave him alone, behave and fashion your mind like he never played a part in your life and he doesn't exist.. talk too another big & strong, soft-hearted man after u give yourself space & time to heal and he will hate himself. Trust me & Goodluck, Godbless you1