Me and my ex boyfriend been together for a good 10months. When we first met it was a natural trust with each other, we were both obese with each other in a loving way. He just graduated as a firefighter but before then he was struggling financially while he was going through school, and that's when it began him acting differently. A week after graduating he tells me that he wants to break up with me, because he can't afford me right now. I understand that he is use to taking me shopping, taking me out, and paying for it all. He has never once let me pay anything for him. Now he is saying he wants to get himself together and that he can't afford me. We have gone through a lot, and no matter what, we have always came back to each other. Therefore, apart of me feels like its not over.
- Should I reach out?Vote A
- Should I let it be?Vote B