It's hard, just wondering why.
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I'm way too familiar with the feeling.
If I had to guess, I'd say it's because when you like someone, you build this fantasy, this dream, this illusion in your head of what it'd be like if you two were together.
Then one day something happens that crushes all those hopes. REALITY hits you. You understand that all that daydreaming was a waste of time. It's like you two didn't even get to try it out, didn't get the chance to live up to those expectations, for better or for worse. It's just a lot of what ifs, could have beens, etc, that start attacking your brain.
Something ends without even beginning. It just doesn't feel right, doesn't feel fair. That's why.2