My ex boyfriend treats me really bad. He keeps sexting me and asking me to come over. I've told him to stop and leave me alone and that I wouldn't sleep with him and that he makes me cry like all the time. He's a jerk but I feel so bad and like sex is the only thing I'm good for. He's my first boyfriend and all and I loved him with all my heart so now that I realise that he was just using me for sex it makes me want to jump off a bridge and just die :( How do you cope with this kind of feeling and make yourself feel better?
Most Helpful Guy
Well when I was taken advantage of I had to get it out of my system
And convince myself that I was too good for that person... And that they didn't deserve me. And also that my
Future will be brighter without them in it! Just stay the course! You will find someone worthy of your love! It's innevitable0
Most Helpful Girl
First of all, you need to stop inviting and including him into your life after he screwed you over and disrespected you. Stop giving him the option to be accessible to you, your time, your energy, your mind, and your mood. That alone will make you feel a heck of a lot better. Exile him from your life: he's earned it. Delete and block him from everywhere as an act of respect and courtesy to yourself.
Once you do this, you will have created a clean slate to recover and heal from the emotional damage he's caused. YOU CANNOT HEAL AND MOVE ON WITH HIM IN YOUR LIFE. It is impossible for you to move forward with him popping up and keeping you in reverse because you are tethered to the pain and disappointment he's caused. Cut him off completely so that you can focus on rebuilding your self-esteem. Fill your head with new thoughts of positivity, beauty, knowledge, and visions for the future that upstage whatever he brought to the table. Get in the best shape of your life! Do things that excite your spirit. Understand that not every guy is going to use your body for his gratification. This guy simply has issues and doesn't respect women. There is so much better out there.2