We were together 4 years, and I broke things off a years ago. So the other day I met up with my ex to take care of something, but cost him $200 even though was my fault, but he insisted on paying. Then he invited me back to his place to hang out. I obliged, as I still needed to pick up something from his place anyways. So when I got there he gave me a verrrry long bear hug while saying he missed me (it was pretty emotional) and he made dinner and we just hung out like old times. He was a bit playfully frisky with me but not beyond that. So anyways he walked me to my car the next day, another hug and said "I'm sure we'll see each other again." Which kinda surprised me because we would never run into eachother. I text him hours later saying thanks again for helping and the cash, and I would send a check. He replied with "There's no need to be sorry. It was good to see you/hang out with you. If you send a check I won't cash it "
Thing is he knows I'm moving far away in like a week, so I dunno if this was just him releasing pent up emotions of being broken up a year, or he hopes to reconcile in the future? His actions and words kinda confused me, lol. Plus, when he texts me he usualy says he's been thinking about me.
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Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't and don't make up and that it's Goodbye-bye, my love forever, @rocyurworld. And with an EX who still Marks an X in his own heart and mind, there might come a time down this fine line When... It was good to see you/hang out with you.
You both Have Now broke the Nice ice and this is healthy where you have this little understanding to Leave the past in the past. I am proud of you for not Falling More into this "Hug," and kept it Clean with what I know you Know what I Mean.
Just because you are going away here, dear, doesn't mean you Both can't keep in touch with text. Go slow for now, don't wear your heart on your sleeve as you leave, and with 'Together 4 years' and some His and her History, this just could be a Better Start than Before And... More in Store.
I am sure with the certain signs I am seeing, that he is Now... Thinking this was a Good price that I paid in the End... He's thinking about Me... And has never stopped.
Good luck. xx
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