So I was dating this guy for 9 months on and off the first time I told him I wanted a committed relationship and he agreed stating he didn't want to lose me... A week later he breaks up with me and says he likes his space and wants to be alone but then I go to his Facebook and I see a girl leaving emojis we don't talk for a month then I hit him up and we hook up but then he goes cold and starts talking to the girl who left post on his page and tells me he just doesn't see a future with me... So fast forward 2 months we start talking again and I tell him again he has to commit to me and he does for 3 months even told me he wanted kids with me but then he tells me once again I still don't see myself with u and I want to be alone and once again I go to his Facebook page and he already serious with someone else and I'm just like how can a person just move on so quickly or was he always keeping his options open and he also said he wants to be friends which we do still talk but I'm like is he worth a friendship or just keeping his options open
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So what exactly have you learned from this?
This dude wasn't moving fast. Clearly from this story, this dude doesn't have any real feelings for you and only using your own emotions against you (i. e., he's saying shit that you like to hear, but he never follows through with them when you're yesterday's flavor).
Next time, he contacts you, hit that ignore or redirect to voicemail. Don't be that 2nd option when his relationships goes to shit and returns back to you... smh4
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