I've really been dealt the straw that breaks the camel's back. My husband and I currently live apart, due to a transfer. He was suppose to come here in April. The issue for him staying longer was that he wanted to finish paying off his lease and bills for his apartment (lease ends the 28th of February). He also wanted to stay the additional 2 months to work, but he was let go 2 weeks ago. Well, last month I found out that I was pregnant (almost 4 months now)!
He agreed to come here in March since he would pay things off this month (February), and up until last week it was the same. Now he's putting it off until April again, because a cousin from Canada is coming to visit. He's putting his cousin before his pregnant wife.
I really need his help, but now I'm considering divorcing him. He's a financial burden, if he had a job I wouldn't be paying his bills. I'd have enough money to have an apartment, a car and still be able to save for the baby. Physically, I need his help, but he's failing as a husband. Again, this isn't the first strike.
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You're married and about to have his baby. Do you really think divorce is a good idea? Tell him he needs to get his ads home... TODAY. No messing about, get home now. Then have a serious talk with him and say that he needs a job, any job. He needs to grow up as he is about to be a father and you will not care for two children.0