I'm in 8 relationship with my boyfriend and he never does anything for me he never request to go anywhere is very often. So I wonder does he really care if I ask him to do anything he says yes but he will never do anything on his own even if he know he needs to what does this mean?
Torn inbetween decisions?
What Guys Said 1
8 what? Days, month, or year? Or this current boyfriend is your 8th boyfriend?
Regardless, this boyfriend is just lazy to make plans or tries to stay neutral.
Try to make the plans and involve him. I know a few guys rather chill at home with their girl because they said these girls are costly (materialistic), but most women itch to do something all at once like it's the end of the world if they don't.
Your boyfriend said he cares and all that, but probably doesn't know what you feel like doing... so he is probably just waiting on you to make the decision because if he makes the plans and you're not interested, then what's the point if you're just going to shot him down?0
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What Girls Said 2
It means he's lazy he settled in to marriage and now thinks he doesn't have to make a effort sit down tell him how unappreciated u feel and tell him if things don't change then its over because you deserve someone who wants to spend time with you 😊1
He sounds lazy, I was able to put up w/a guy who was similar for under a year and then I could no longer take it. I'm not talking about somewhere expensive, I'm talking about a picnic in the park or something simple. This is what you will get out of the guy regardless of moving in together, marriage or kids.0
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