I recently found out that my ex boyfriends grandmother passed away, and I wanted to give my condolences. But I'm not sure how he will react or if this would be appropriate. We were together for 6 years, and lived together for 5 years, but ended on bad terms. I have not spoken to him in over a year, we never had closure we just broke up and never spoke again. While we were together, my grandfather and aunt passed away, he was there for my family and I. I just feel it is appropriate to pay my respect towards his grandmother she was a good woman. I don't want to call him or text him because I don't want him having my number. I was planning on showing up to his work and giving him some flowers to put on her gravesite. I'm not sure if he would get upset or how he would handle that. How can I go about this?
Most Helpful Guy
Call him from someone else's phone (like at a restaurant or hotel, etc.)1
Most Helpful Girl
Did you change your number from the last time you guys spoke? You could try reaching out to him through social media before you just show up at his work unexpected. He may not like it.
It's a nice gesture but it may anger him. It's better to get a feel and a heads up1