I'll start off with saying that when I met this guy he would always flirt with me/give me compliments. Later I found out he had a girlfriend of 2 years. After that I kept my distance.
He still kept trying to get my attention even as to go far and get my phone number from another third party. Long story short I did start having feelings for him and I told him and he said he felt the same way too and it was hard on him since he had a girlfriend but was "falling" for me too.
I know it's partially my fault because I let my guard down and let my feelings get in the way of liking someone who was already in a relationship. I would see him uploading photos of him and his girlfriend on social media, and was kinda hard. But, my feelings for him NOW are slowly but surely fading away. I've deleted his number of my phone, all the messages all this stupid sweet shit he would tell me. But what lingers now is how he played with my emotions. Also, this guy went as far to find out where I live...
If anyone has gone through this, how did you deal with it?
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You are doing the right thing by having no contact. It's cruel to play with someone's feelings that way, even more so when he actually has a girlfriend. Just be thankful that you are not his girlfriend, and you are not with a guy you almost settled for, because he is obviously a "player". If you were his girlfriend , you now know he would be leading other girls on whilst in a relationship with you. He is the sort of guy who would repeatedly break your heart. Hearts are too vulnerable to give someone who will be reckless with it.
That is not the behaviour of someone who cares about you. His behaviour is a reflection of his character... not yours.
The one thing i have learned in life is... hearts break easy , but they do heal and they do love again. Just make sure the next time, that you put your heart on reserve for a guy who views it as precious ♥1