She contacted after 11 months of no contact whatsoever saying that she knows we haven't spoken in a while but that she was in a country I had been to and wanted advice. She could have gotten the advice from somewhere else...
I told her when we ended it that I didn't wantto be friends and I think the no contact period emphasised that fact.
Why has she contacted me after all this time?
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Do you know that there were other people she knows who have been to that country? If not, she probably really did want the advice of someone who's been there.
Otherwise, it could be that she chose to ask you instead of someone else because it was a good excuse to have a no pressure kind of chat and see how you're doing / what's new. There are two possible reasons why she'd want to know how you're doing and what's new with you - either she still cares about you as a person despite having moved on, or she misses you.1
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