My boyfriend and I have been fighting this past week. I told him how certain actions he does hurt my feelings or make me feel like he doesn’t want to be with me or would rather be with someone else. We only been together for a month and I’m just not happy. I feel inferior because he spends all his time with this chick at work (and her sister) and even walk them to their car at night, which he never did or does for me by the way.
I talked to him about it, he said “well, If someone asks me to walk them to their car at night I’m going to do it” I said That just shows me who you care about more and what’s more important to you. Regardless of how I feel you still will do it anyway” It rubs me the wrong way. When she goes out of her way to help him at work then he claims I never have his back at work. How can I when that girl does. I’m so hurt I can’t even look at him or kiss him. I walk the other way. There’s nothing worse then feeling like your spouse would rather be with someone else.
At this point I just want to tell him to be with her and I wish them the best but I no longer want to be in this relationship. I’m playing second best.
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Be completely honest with him, don't sugar coat anything. Yes, it'll hurt. But it has to happen. And that way there's no room for confusion.3