My ex did this to me. we dated for two and half years and then he cheated and dumped me. he told me we'd get back together but later changed his mind and to not keep my hopes up of him coming back around. then when he was home from college we went to get lunch. we kept hanging out for three months and he made me think he still loved me and cared about me. he invited me to stay with him at school twice and when we would hang out he would tell me i was pretty and cute and that he liked me and we would cuddle and kiss and he would pay for my food and would give me rides. turns out he had another girlfriend the whole time and was only hanging out with me to get sex. he says he doesn't care about me at all and wants me out of his life now. what kind of a person does this? is this normal behavior for an 18 year old boy?
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Most Helpful Guy
18? did you say 18? its not exactly "normal" but it is very very likely. if they are attractive and get a lot of girls... yes...
i was going to say that i did the same back in the day sometimes as well... then you said 18? what? you didn't see that coming?
you have two choices... if the sex is good and you want it, use him back as a fuck boy... or... LEAVE.0
Most Helpful Girl
Yea. He was clearly stringing you along for sex. But once he said he doesn't care for you and wants you out of his life. That should have been your deal breaker. Thete is no reason to make sense of it. Move on, pick yourself up mama you deserve better. I can't say if this is typical 18 y/o male behavior, just him being an Azzhole. The stringing you along for sex is typical male jerk behavior. When you allow a man to just tell you anything and have your body , as he chooses. It won't be long before he loses respect for you , become disrespectful, then pushes you out. They will string a girl along that they know they can. To Get sex from While they are pursuing someone else. Just like that they are done. I had similar happen to me only. He didn't say he didn't want me in his life, or didn't care. But his actions showed it very clearly. He would say shit like "its early and I got plans today" translation: Its time for you to leave. Or he's go in the kitchen to eat, leave me in the bedroom hungry. I have taken a lot of things but disrespect is what, I won't. I starteted ignoring his call (booty calls). He kept calling, leaving pitiful voicemails trying to pull me back. Girl. It was hard because I was lonely, vunerable (due to a loss) the sex was good, and he was the only man in my life. So it was a battle But I knew I deserved better so I had to be a woman and kept walking.0