In short, I haven't spoke to him for a year and we live long-distance. He does sign online quiet often and I know he is checking up on me and trying to get my attention. He has done odd things like copy my login times and even trying to copy the style of my profile pic!
He did some pretty bad things including lying nonstop! However, I know it is possible people can change and we had a super strong feeling of love between us. I don't know why he has continued to play games the last few months, but maybe he is afraid to contact me and it is not his ego?
The last time I did send him a message it was basically telling him to "stay out of my life" and that was because one year ago, he was still lying, making excuses, and not admitting the truth. I really miss him a lot and my life is empty without him. PLEASE HELP!
Only people that have real useful advice, not telling me to move on because obviously I love this person! THank you!
He also keeps making contradictions. Threatening to block me and then also saying he wants to keep trying and hope "I will change." lol
I don't know how to tackle this at all! And, he still won't call/Skype me. It is crazy!
Most Helpful Guy
The only two answers to your question are yes or no...
And you said "Only people that have real useful advice, not telling me to move on because obviously I love this person! THank you!" Which means you won't accept no for an answer.
So my question to you is... what do you want from us? You have clearly come to your own answer...0
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Most Helpful Girl
No, don't contact him. The things that you think are "odd things" (copy login time and profile pic) are merely coincidences. If he was trying to get your attention, that's not what a guy would do to get it. If you're talking about Facebook, you should just delete and/or block him. I know doing that to someone you think you love would be hard, but it would be the best thing for you. That way, you won't see what he has been up to and eventually you will move on. You seem like you're just trying to find a reason to talk to him. Based on what you wrote, I can't find any reason that you should contact him. You shouldn't contact him.
I went through something very similar and blocked the guy... it helped a lot. It's probably not the answer you want to hear, but you will eventually move on. It may take months or years to move on, but it will happen. Trust me.1