We dated for about two months. We ended it tonight, no big fight or anything. It was kinda long distance (an hour away from each other) and it just wasn't working out. No hard feelings really. But even though it was short, it kinda was my first real relationship and I lost my virginity to him. I'm bummed, but not all together heartbroken I guess, I saw it coming. What are some tips to feel better and not dwell on it?
Most Helpful Guy
It can be tough to go from a great relationship, to no relationship. It's a lot easier to move on if the other party was not-so-great.
Remember, he wasn't always in your life. Do what you did before meeting him. Meet with friends, go out, have some fun. Most importantly, realize that it was a teaching experience.1
Most Helpful Girl
I've been in a failed LDR before.. the reasons for breaking up were different, we were together for 8 months ( same day we completed 8 months, we broke up).
it took me nearly 4-5 months to get COMPLETELY over him. Now I got really hurt, but I tried to convince myself that its better for me, but tbh I couldn't have done that without my back then online friend ( now boyfriend ). He supported me a lot through everything, and he helped me, move on.
you should try to stay with people who support you, stay out with friends, family, go outside, have a walk, work out, etc. And trust me, you will get over him. Oh and something SUPER IMPORTANT... DO NOT listen to any music he sent u nor look at his pictures.. You will only stay stuck in it if u look at it... And whenever u think about him try to get that thought out of your head. Good luck 😊1