My boyfriend and I got Into a fight because of my insecurity. I didn't want to fight, I just wanted to talk about something that made me uncomfortable. He got pissed and started getting get angry about how I'm accusing him of things and not trusting him. He started saying that it's my fault for thinking that way and I'm nosy. He said a lot of things and started cursing me out. It all happened through text which I didn't want, I wanted to talk on the phone but the signal was bad. So he said "goodbye" and I told him to do what ever makes him feel good. The next day I sent him an apology and told him that he deserves someone better than me and he read it but didn't reply. I feel bad for upsetting him, I just wanted to talk and sort things out. But my friends are telling me to just give him some space. We made 7 months and he does love me and says that I mean the world to him. But after this fight I don't know if he'll talk to me again.
Most Helpful Guy
Whether he'll contact you depends on his level of patience. My Ex was incredibly insecure when we met. She accused me of cheating more than I brush my teeth... and I brush my teeth twice a day.
Eventually I got tired of it and did what I had to, to make her feel secure. Unfortunately, when the time came for her to do the same, she pretty much gave me a glorified "nah." So, I left.
My advice? Give him space. He knows you still want him, he saw your apology, and the ball is now in his court.1
Most Helpful Girl
Right now you need to give him some space. Don't contact him for a couple of weeks and work on making yourself happy again without him. If you can, go see a therapist to help you work through these issues, and when you're completely happy with yourself you won't ever worry about any guy leaving you or cheating on you. You'll simply just leave and remove yourself from a relationship that doesn't make you happy.
But if overall you're both generally happy, then I think you have a decent chance of getting back together. But make sure you fix the issues that caused this argument and take things slowly.1