I've was dating this guy for three months. I sent him a text about how i was feeling distant and that we should have more communication if were not able to spend time. And i know he's busy working two jobs but if he wanted he could spend the night at my place so we can spend some time together. He txted me back the next day saying i know im sorry your right we will talk i promise. That was a Tuesday and i haven't heard back since. I normally don't go this long without hearing from him. So im assuming that it's over and probably been for awhile. Am i over thinking? Or am i completely right? By the way he liked to spend a lot of time together when he worked one job. He seem really nice and down to earth we got along really good. So everthing seemed fine.
Why did he promise to talk and after I haven't heard from him since. Why could've went wrong?
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I was just recently in a VERY similar situation. We hung out a lot when he was working this one job then he started working another with really early hours and he disappeared. We really would not have had time at all but I was still willing to try! But this guy really did just completely disappear on me, I tried texting and no response. I asked about this here and so many people responded by saying that guys will easily put girls on the back burner when they are really busy or going through major changes. Maybe they will come back when they get used to their new schedules. So I don't know, mine has gone weeks with no contact and I don't expect to hear from him. You could try one more text to make sure, that is what I did, and then I was sure that we were not hanging out anymore and I could start accepting that. Unfortunately with you and I, we weren't dating long, so it is bad timing since we weren't able to establish anything strong before it happened that may have kept him around.0
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