I've been dating this awesome guy for almost 3 months now - we've both agreed to be exclusive from the start and it has been going really well to say the least. I sent him a selfie while at the beach last Tuesday. I was alone with no other people nearby. I was getting ready to walk/run the bike trail nearby, was wearing dark glasses and pretty much looked like a scrub with no make up on. He texted me and asked "what are you up to", I responded and said "was doing this" and sent him the selfie pic.. mind you the photo was taken about 45 minutes prior and I was now at Sports Authority.. just killing time. Immediately, he asked who I was with and zoomed in on the photo said I was lying and wanted me to video scan the area (obv. I wasn't there anymore which made him think that I was lying even more). The following day I went through the selfies I took and realized I had 4 all taken within a 4 min period and sent them all to him with the time stamps (only the one I originally sent has a hint of the shadow). Long story short, he's convinced the image/shadow is of another guy, has broken up with me and does not want any thing to do with me ever again. Both he and I have been cheated on in the past, apparently once where there was an image in the photo to be true on his end. I just learned this and can understand but honestly I would never do that to him, I am completely head over heels. And, I've tried everything to help repair the misunderstanding. He's not having it.. I'm a liar and cheater as far as he's concerned. What else can I do to convince him otherwise? I also am offended that he doesn't believe me (this I haven't addressed yet).
Pic attached (referring to right side of edge/rim of glasses).
Most Helpful Guy
Well that's complex. The best way to go about it is I'm person explain everything to him be honest about your feelings for him and reassure him that you're not his ex. Also don't be afraid to be angry at him for treating you baddly and calling you a cheater. Remember this has to be done on person face to face not on a phone not in a letter not in text nor on the computer. If you know where he works go and tell him if you know where he lives go and tell him then when your done speaking leave and move forward with life if he really wants you he'll go after you but you have to move forward. Do not let him stop you from saying what you need to say. It will work out for the best no matter what happens so don't be to concerned.1
Most Helpful Girl
I would be glad he wants to break up sounds stupid!3