Okay so I was seeing this guy a couple months ago who got a new job and disappeared on me. We only hung out for a less than two months. We were intimate which I know always makes these things harder for girls, which is why I usually refrain from that. Either way, I am STILL thinking about him a decent amount. Maybe because I had no closure... Also, I hang out with a lot of people that know him and talk about him sometimes and he has come into my work since and I always wonder if he will again.
In a way I still want to run into him, apparently he asked his friend for advice after he disappeared and his friend said he couldn't do anything because he already screwed up, so now I know he didn't really want to stop talking so that is even less closure. It sucks! I believe I should not be thinking about someone for longer than we hung out for. Is there a way to force your mind to stop thinking about someone? Or do I have to just wait until I meet someone new?
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Or seeing as he felt like he screwed up and really wanted to continue to talk to you, why not reach out to him?0