he cheated on me, kept it a secret for a month, lead me on, used me for sex, told me we'd get back together, then told me to get out of his life, blocked me on all social media. then three months later he unblocks me. when i reached out he was short with his answers. if he doesn't miss me then why would he have unblocked me? if he was just over everything and didn't care why wouldn't he just keep me blocked if he had no intentions of communication?
Most Helpful Guy
He probably just want to use again so he feels better. What would be extremely sad is if you let him. You learned your lesson, this guy is no good. Do yourself a favor and block him instead and move on. An for the record since I read some of your replies. Thats how abusers are, they are always "nice" and "amazing" in the beginning, but they quickly turn that around when they feel like it, leave you with scraps so you always crave and want more, give so little compared to how they started to give, to keep you hooked. Keep you starved and desperate so you go back and fall into the trap, which yeah, dont.0
Most Helpful Girl
I unblocked my ex as a sign that I have moved on from the problems we had. I don't want him to contact me and I don't contact him, but it's my way of saying, that's done, you can't hurt me with that anymore.
I don't understand why you are reaching out to him? He cheated on you, hurt you, used you... why are you wanting to speak to him? To give him a chance to do it again? Sounds to me like you are having trouble letting him go and you haven't dealt with the break up.0