Me and my ex had a long distance relationship. We recently started talking after months. She sometimes would flirt with me and would message me all day but then there's days that she barely hits me up and is really dry with me. Why is this? I'm so confused. What does she want?
Most Helpful Girl
It appears here, dear, that being you Both have Still Some His and Her History Left, She still has this Softie Spot for you and has Marked an X in her own Heart for you, Her... Ex.
However, just because she may still want you in her life, doesn't mean she wants to get Back to "The Way We Were" tomorrow. She may just Want her Sweet cake and Eat it Two, to just Remain the Same with being a Free bird but yet, having you There because she does Care.
Go Slow with her Flow, Joe. Play it out for awhile and Feel it out with a Smile as to what May or May not happen Next.
It's a "Long Distance Relationship" Now for what it is and Nothing has changed, as far as the 'Distance,' it's just that you Both are Not in the same Nest right Now, but Still are Sort of like Two birds of a Feather Who still Want to Stick... Together.
Good luck. xx0
Most Helpful Guy
You guys broke up. I don't know if it was mutual, but you guys broke up.
From my experience, and I'm pretty sure she's just playing games. Likes your attention. She's keeping you on her chain so if a better guy doesn't come along she'll still have you. Ask her what's up, if she says she just wants to be friends and you're not okay with that, drop her. No contact. She's just using you for an ego boost like @Deepblue11 said.1