What are your worst experiences that happened to you when you rejected somebody, that felt strong feelings toward you? Is there any second guessing, behavior changing, or does it not affect you?
Most Helpful Guy
Well, doing the rejection is easy, thats why this question should be chock full of guy horror stories. The rejecter usually tends not to feel anything, thats the whole point. I've rejected a few girls and granted i felt a little guilty because I've been on that side of stick many times before and it sucks, but i usually stamp that down by putting myself in the shoes of the girl i rejected. Would she feel anything if she was the one who rejected me? NO! so i walk away.
The difference between guy and girl rejection is that most guys at least give the girl a shot to make a pitch, most girls don't, they just judge off the cover.
I rejected a girl once who liked me a lot, but i liked her friend, so it was mondo awkward talking to her friend who i liked but was only talking to me to express her friend's feelings for me... yikes. So as always i let her friend know i liked her instead and she... well... didn't feel the same. lol... ain't that a bitch. so i told her to tell the friend that likes me how she felt cuz it was the same way i felt.
Most Helpful Girl
I told a guy after 2 dates that I didn't want to see him anymore. I didn't feel a connection. It was 2 dates. I just want to stress that point.
Well. He proceeded to text me constantly for the next year. When I blocked his number, he started doing it on a different number. He found me on social media and tried to request to be my friend.
2 freaking dates! And he went crazy on me.0
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