If i hear another person say that they don't want to be in a relationship because they want to grow as a person, i swear to god I'm going to puke. If your ex or almost ex or friend has ever told you that they don't want a relationship because they want to grow as a person, or that they're doing it for themselves make sure you call bullshit because thats what it is. They're either a thot, or a player.
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah my last ex dropped that line and shortly after that I saw him out and about with HIS last ex whom I always suspected he never was 100% over. They clearly got back together and it was all lies. I'll never fall for that line again. If a guy or girl truly wants you and felt in love with you, they will NOT leave to "grow as a person". That's a sure fire way of knowing they aren't afraid of losing you.1